Wikipedia in one of its article indicates that there are more than 68 million registered Catholics in the United States, about 22% of our country's population. If the Pew Forum on Religious and Public Life is correct approximately additional 10% of all Americans (about 30 million) are "former Catholics". It means about one third of our country's population have been connected with the Catholic Church in one or another point of their lives. Why than can't we see values of the Catholic Church, for example, believe in Sanctity of Life more permeating our culture?
We hear different reasons why: secularism, materialism, individualism, consumerism, relativism, loss of church moral authority, mistrust of the institutions, the church mingling into politics, disconnect of the church from reality of people's lives, shortage of priests, bureaucracy, liberalism, conservatism, sexual abuse, etc.etc.etc. We hear many complaints and explanations why things are the way they are. And our country is not unique in that regard.
This is perhaps why pope Benedict talks so much about the New Evangelization. He created the entirely new Vatican Department to promote the evangelization, the Archbishop Timothy Dolan of New York, has become its member. In October of 2012 the topic of the world wide synod of the bishops is supposed to be "New Evangelization."
I have no doubt that the Vatican will come up with some solutions to help us to address the issue of why so many Catholics and Christians, including some priests and bishops, have lived completely unchristian lives. But I also believe that today's readings from the Holy Scriptures can aid us in that. As I read those readings I understand the following:
There is only one way in which someone's sincerity can be proven and that is by someone's practice. This is why saying Lord, Lord is not enough. Fine words can never be a substitute for fine deeds. For example, there is no point in saying that we love person and then deliberately doing things which break that person's heart. It is so easy to recite a creed in the church, but it wouldn't be better not to recite it but to live the Christian life. We should never confess that we believe in God with our lips but to deny His existence with our lives.
We all yearn for a deep relationship with God but so many of us get disillusioned when those who proclaim that have that relationship break our hearts and test our faith.
The only way our communities and our world can be evangelized is not by creating new programs or regulations. Blaming others will not help neither.
For each one of us here there is only one way - to live our lives in the ways Jesus taught us. Even if this would bring on us persecution or ridicule. The Catholic Church does the best it can interpreting Jesus' teaching for us and with us, and helping us to understand it in the reality of this present world and time. For most of us it is only within the church community and with the help of the church community where we can discern the will of God regarding our lives.
The true religion is about love, honesty, truthfulness, and integrity in all aspects of our conduct. Without such virtues faith and worship lose their meaning and become lifeless formality. Perhaps this is the main reason why so many leave the Catholic Church? And perhaps this is why some decides to join the Catholic church?