4.c.lent.2010.prodigal.son.stmb(based on Celebration and The NIB)
Jos 5:9,10-12; 2 Cor 5:17-21; Luke 15:1-3,11-32
Earnest Hemingway wrote a story of a Spanish father who wanted to reconcile with his son, who had run away to Madrid. The father placed this ad in the paper: Paco, all is forgiven – meet me at Hotel Montana at noon on Tuesday. Papa.” When the father went to the hotel on Tuesday, he found the hotel square filled with 800 boys named Paco waiting for their fathers.
Paco and the prodigal son represent the natural development of every child, somewhat taken to the extreme. Even those children who don’t leave home must somehow separate themselves from their parents. The prodigal son looked for the freedom to direct his own life. He wanted to earn his own way apart from his father. And he demanded his rights before he was able to understand the value of his relationship with his father and his brother.
Most of us have yearned, one time or another in our lifetime, to be independent not just from our parents, but also to earn our own way apart from God. If we have ever tried to do it we know very well how easily:
· our desires for independence might have become arrogance;
· our need for love might have turned to lust;
· our longing for success might have turned to greed;
· our yearning for equality might have become envy.
But let us not be swayed, this is not a focus of this well known parable. This parable is not as much about the prodigal son but about the father and the elder son. The conversation between the elder brother and the father forms the climax and focus of the entire parable.
The Father requires no confession and no restitution from the younger son. No penance is required of him; for Father it is enough that the son has come home.
The elder son seems to be proud of life he lives. He believes in justice and merit. It seems as he believes his younger brother should be dealt accordingly to what he deserves.
The parable leaves us with the question of whether the elder brother joined the celebration. Did he go in and welcome his brother home, or did he stay outside feeling wronged?
The parable ends here because that is the decision each one of us must make. If we go in, we accept grace as the Father’s rule for life in the family of the church. With Christ we receive and rejoice with others who in our eyes do not deserve our forgiveness or God’s grace.
It is a tough choice, and if you have never needed to make it, believe me you will one day.